Mix together all ingredients for Muthia loosely so it holds shape but don't make it too dense. Let sit for 10-20 minutes to let the flavors meld. Then form small muthia and set aside.
In a bowl, whisk together ½ cup yogurt, 1 TBSP besan, 1 cup water and set aside
Heat 2 TBSP oil in a sauce pan
Add 1 tsp rai and 1 tsp ajamo
Add yogurt mixture and 4 more cups water.
Add ¼ tsp turmeric, 1 tsp red chili powder, 1 tsp dhana jeeru, 1 tsp salt, 1 tsp methi masala, ¼ tsp cinnamon/cloves powder
When liquid is boiling, add muthia and ¼ tsp baking soda.
Cover and cook over medium to low heat for 20 mins, stirring occasionally.